Mr. Deals is sick of getting yelled at!


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Another Sunday post by Mr. Deals…

“Mr. Deals, why are you using that credit card?! Mr. Deals, make sure you use that credit card at dinner! Mr. Deals that card gives you 2x points, come on!” I’ve had it people. I have too many credit cards thanks to Mrs. Deals.

This is what I’ve got in my wallet. Chase Sapphire Preferred, Starwood Amex, Amex Business Gold, AA Visa, Hilton Amex and Hilton Visa. I try to keep 2 of these cards for work only, typically the Starwood Amex and the AA Visa (for flights). The Amex Business Gold will get the big purchases, while the Chase Sapphire Preferred is for everyday stuff. The Hilton cards are floaters since I’ve had them forever and occasionally get some use, but not really. It may not sound like a system, but it works for me.

So yesterday, Mrs. Deals decides she’s got a problem with my card usage. Out of nowhere, “Mr. Deals, what card are you using on your client dinners?!” My response, “honey, typically I use my Starwood card when I’m out with clients so that I can keep track of my work expenses in one place.” Mrs. Deals nearly had a heart attack. “Don’t you know you get 2x points on dining with your Chase Sapphire Preferred?!”

Truth be told, I probably knew this, but I can’t keep track of all these things. That’s her job. I’m just along for the ride here to do what she tells me. Isn’t that how marriages work? Mrs. Deals, I think I have a solution that we can implement so I don’t have to text or call you before every single purchase I make. How about we get a label maker and throw some labels on these credit cards to tell me when I should use them? Yeah, it will ruin that cool look of the Chase Sapphire card, but I guess it’s the price I’ll have to pay to get those extra points, and to stop getting yelled at!

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phraktur
phraktur
10 years ago

LOL!

Which card provides the best benefits on purchasing flowers for Mrs. Deals to apologize every time you mess up and use the wrong card?

Kofucious
10 years ago

Mr. Deals, small price to pay for miles & points maximization. Lol. Agree with Phraktur, find the card with the most points maximization and get her some flowers. Haha.

LR
LR
10 years ago

Rule #96: No excuses, play like a champ.

The Nomad
The Nomad
10 years ago

Every quarter, I make a chit of which card to use for what purchases. I keep it in my wallet in a displayable portion. So, I know which card to use where.

PSL
PSL
10 years ago

Hilarious! This sounds just like me and my husband of 41 years, and it gets even more confusing when one of us has a new card that requires a minimum spend for the bonus. He does love the free travel, though, so he puts up with it!

Kadence
Kadence
10 years ago

My husband feels the same way! We had a screaming argument over the phone b/c he was getting new tires for the car and didn’t tell me beforehand. He wanted to use his new United visa (he already met spend requirements on that) but I wanted him to use the Hilton visa b/c I need to get to $1500

Erik
Erik
10 years ago

Rather than labeling the cards. Get a piece of cardstock and cut it to the size of a credit card. Then put the info on it and laminate it and shove it in your wallet in front of the credit cards. Thus you pull that out first and then pick the card needed based on the notes.

This works for me at least.

boilers
boilers
10 years ago

I actually did make labels on our printer for mrs. Boilers! I stuck them on the back.

martin henner
martin henner
10 years ago

Use your Sapphire card for business dinners, to keep your accounting straight, and have Mrs. Deals get a Sapphire card in your name from her account, which you can then use for family expenses.

HikerT
HikerT
10 years ago

No label maker needed. Why doesn’t she use bold (or regular) ink at OD to mint $500 GCs or reload cards at 5x?

Heather
Heather
10 years ago

The only thing that seems to work for my husband is serial monogamy–be true to one card until I take it away and give you a new one! This is sometimes supplemented with a backup visa when the primary is Amex. He is onboard with the credit card application game and I do ask if he minds before I apply for more in his name, but he never remembers spending categories, and I long ago gave up scolding him about it. When I question him about how much he is spending now, he likes to use “But I thought you wanted me to meet a spending requirement” as an excuse–usually long after it was met!

I enjoy your posts, especially the humorous ones!

BOShappyflyer
BOShappyflyer
10 years ago

Awwww. Agreed with LR – Rule #96: No excuses, play like a champ.

Seriously though, I get that from my family too. They are not interested in getting any more credit cards because they can’t manage all the ones they have already (and it isn’t a lot, fewer than 5!)

reeder
reeder
10 years ago

I write my categories on the top of a post-it (just the front of the sticky bit) and cut that off, slap on the back of my cards. A grocery clerk told me others do it, too.

mommypoints
mommypoints
10 years ago

I’m kinda with HikerT on this one. 😉

Kathy
Kathy
10 years ago

This was hilarious! My husband can’t keep up with the categories either but he loves the benefits, so he just does what he is told. LOL! He is now on his third leisure trip of the year — all paid for with miles and points. We are going to Vegas in a month, suite and flights all paid for with miles and points. Sometimes I put sticky notes on his credit cards or just stitch them around depending on how I need him to spend. It is WAY too complicated for him to keep up with at this point.

Clarelouise44
Clarelouise44
10 years ago

Just buy a couple of sheets of those little circular sale price stickers and write the info there and paste on the front of the card. I also mark for which dining program a card is registered. If the info gets outdated just peel it off and refresh.

Jimmy @TravelByPoints
10 years ago

Agree with HikerT and mommypoints. Time to load up on that Amex Prepaid card by Inking points at Office Depot.

John
John
10 years ago

I put info on the cards with a sharpie,G&G (gas and groceries)Dining,Office supplies, etc I also mark for which dining program a card is registered) I also just started minting at OD!

W Brian Duncan (aka IPBrian)

Sounds like Mr Deals needs a pre-paid Amex from Office Depot. That should solve the problem. 🙂

dealswelike
dealswelike
10 years ago

@Hey all, Mrs. Deals here – so unfortunately you cannot get those pre-paid Amex cards from Office Depot in NYC. They do not sell them due to fraud.

Mr. Deals
Mr. Deals
10 years ago

Holy Comments!

Alrighty now, I like some of these suggestions here. I’m leaning on having Mrs. Deals control which card I use on a daily basis, though when I asked her last night after waking her up from falling asleep on the couch, she had no ability to make a decision for me.

I also like the idea of keeping a card that acts as a ‘cheat sheet’ here. Probably the best way to help me learn.

Now here’s the real question. Which card should I use to buy my next surfboard? Any 2x, 3x points for that kind of gear?

dealswelike
dealswelike
10 years ago
Reply to  Mr. Deals

@Mr. Deals – If you think another surfboard is entering this apartment, you are out of your mind! Love, your truly.

Tracy
Tracy
10 years ago

Awww this is all too familar a complaint my husband makes. He doesn’t complain when we take our free vacations though 🙂

Rayn
Rayn
10 years ago

My suggestion is, if your significant other is not that into the world of points and miles, give him/her the new cards that has not meet spending requirements. If there is no such a need, just give them the most rewarding card in all aspect.

Globetrotter
Globetrotter
10 years ago

wait ok so dealswelike=Mrs. Deals+Mr. Deals., Mr. Deals=Mr. Deals. is there a Mrs Deals?…..sorry just trying to put together a cheat sheet card for my wallet.

dealswelike
dealswelike
10 years ago
Reply to  Globetrotter

@Globetrotter – The main poster is me, Mrs. Deals. My husband, Mr. Deals, is the Sunday feature. That work?!

Globetrotter
Globetrotter
10 years ago

ok I got you

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